A Mother's Love - Defiled by incest

A harsh reality that carries lifetime scars. Each year in America, almost 8 million children are sexually abused. Most are victims of incest. With the ultimate taboo broken, mothers become the touchstone of healing for the whole family.
Some of the questions that are answered in this book are:

• How could this happen right under my nose?
• Can the abuser change, and how long will it take?
• How can I ever forgive them?
• Can my marriage be saved?
• What are the signs I missed?
• Will my child ever heal?
• Why does my abused child have anger toward me?
• How will this affect my other children?
• Why does everyone think I knew and did nothing?
• Who is God and what is He all about if He doesn't protect my children?

This important work is priced at $16.99 a copy.

Books

My Parents Cried Too

The story of a son who lived in the world of drugs, despair, and self-destruction. This was written to help parents understand the trauma and to give hope and help in the midst of their crisis.

The cost for this publication is $8.99.

Tapes & CD's

Wives

A Challenge to Wives by Millie Dienert  
#1000 60 min . 
Are you bored, fatigued, and aimless?
Mrs. Dienert talks about you, your husband, your children, and the role you have in your family.

Marriage

How husband and wife relationships affect values by Sam Rowan  
#1104 60 min. 

Marriage is here to stay IF by Jill Renich  
#1008 60 min.

How to apply a not-so-easy principle that can change your marriage. How can you free your husband so GOD can develop his full potential.

Understanding your husband by Fred Renich  
#1009 60 min. 
Is it possible that God has a better plan for your husband than you do? Learn to appreciate the differences between you and your mate, what his needs are, and how a man views life.

When Spiritual Values Differ between Husband and Wife by Harriet Boyer  
#1014 60 min. 
Accepting your mate's differing values and working for family unity may be difficult, but not impossible!

Understanding differences between Husband and Wife by Fred Renich  
#1021 60 min. 
Differences and conflicts - are they normal? What should we do to walk together and still keep Biblical principles?

A Man's Point of View by John Van Wingerden  
#1076 60 min. 
Is your mate a "distant Island?" Learn to understand His emotional needs and uniqueness

Changing Roles in Christian Marriage by John & Marilyn Van Wingerden  
#1047 60 min. 
An honest look at the female and male responsibilities in marriage with an explanation of the difference between values and priorities, Who should lead?

I Want to be Gentle by Marilyn Van Wingerden  
#5003 60 min. 
What is "true" submission? This is a balance view for the Christian woman.

Sexual Understanding in Marriage

Wives...Put Sexual Freedom in Your Marriage by Edith Gelaude  
#1029 60 min. 
A confidential and frank talk to help you learn to appreciate your partner, and how to be flexible to each other's needs.

And He Saw That It Was Good by Edith Gelaude  
#1032 60 min. 
God designed sex for marriage. Understanding your own needs and those of our husband is vital.

Woman Herself

What does Life hold after 40? by Edith Gelaude  
#1013 60 min. 
Are your children leaving the "nest"? Do you have time on your hands? Do you feel "too old" to start something new?

Where to now, God? by Harriet Boyer  
#1034 60 min. 
This will help you to understand and deal with emotional and physical changes after 35.

You are Important to Your Family...Your World!! by Marilyn Van Wingerden  
#1035 60 min. 
Marilyn's life story of how she learned the importance of a woman's role in her own family and her response to God within difficult circumstances.

The Working Mother by Malettor Cross  
#1051 60 min. 
If you are facing the possibility of having to work, what precautions and issues do you need to consider? Can family unity be maintained?

Effective Time with God by Jill Renich  
#7000+7001 2 CD's or tapes 2 hours 
Deals with your personal time with God. Jill shares with women from her heart how to effectively pray and study the Bible. ($14.99/set)

Man Himself

Understanding Your Wife's Inner Needs by Marilyn Van Wingerden  
#1041 60 min. 
A guide in meeting a woman's physical, emotional and spiritual needs. A Must for every husband to hear!

When the Going Gets Tough, The Tough Get Going by Jim Daugherty  
#1042 60 min. 
Handling a family crisis: child on drugs, pregnant and unwed, suicide...how do parents live through that?!?

What a Wife Looks for in a Husband by Jill Renich  
#1022 60 min. 
Find out which qualities women appreciate in a mate.

Self-Acceptance

A Study of the Four Temperaments by Fred Renich  
#1017-1020 4 tapes 4 hours 
Understanding the temperaments can be the KEY to communication within your family and with your friends. Learning your strengths and weaknesses is the beginning to becoming the mature Christian you want to be. ($19.99/set)

Why do I Feel So Stupid? by William Greenman  
#1040 60 min. 
Understanding why we view ourselves as other people do. Did you know that "God does not make junk?"

Family

Nurturing in the Family by Marilyn Van Wingerden  
#1043 60 min. 
Everyone in the family needs nurturing: love, warmth, and genuine acceptance. Role reversal will result if these needs are not met.

Building Trust in the Family by Marilyn Van Wingerden  
#1064 60 min. 
Without trust there is no love...How to build this trust that creates health emotional responses.

Building Cohesiveness in the Family by Marilyn Van Wingerden  
#5033 60 min. 
How God uses hardship to build HIS character within us that enables us to stand steady in our circumstances.

Returning the Family to Strength by Marilyn Van Wingerden  
#1066 60 min. 
In our de-personalized world we need to restore the purpose of the family, and strengthen the very core with personalized care, love, and unity.

The Christian Family in a Crisis of Change by Marilyn Van Wingerden  
#1055 60 min. 
What are the effects of these changes on the family: working mothers, drugs, values, and priorities.

Why the Family? by Fred Renich  
#7002-7007 6 tapes 6 hours 
This series will help you understand your family. Fred brings to men in-depth honesty on parenting, with valuable insight on the family. ($24.99/set)

It's Not Too Late by John Van Wingerden  
#1046 60 min. 
How to restore relationships with older children. Years of failure, bitterness, and deep emotional wounds CAN be healed. Where do we begin?

In a World of Turmoil - Get Your Bearings by Fred Renich  
#1056 60 min. 
Find your anchor in the midst of confusion, fear, and panic living. God is NOT confounded!

Choosing God's Way - A Return to Divine Directives by Fred Renich  
#1057 60 min. 
What is involved in deliberately choosing to accept and follow God's revealed purposes for the individual and family living.

Charting your course in a World of Change by Fred Renich  
#1058 90 min. 
Workable guidelines for building wholesome family life in a world of dramatic change.

Does God Live in Your House? by Fred Renich  
#1060 60 min. 
The importance of a Godly home; what it is, and three basic reasons for having one!

Parents

A Challenge to Christian Parents by Fred Renich  
#1002 60 min. 
These are times of frightening change. Mr. Renich gives encouragement and "helps" to raise a Christian family in these times.

The Importance of Family Heritage by Jill Renich  
#1086 60 min. 
In our mobile society parents and grandparents are not able to pass on family traditions. Learn how to begin to build a family heritage.

The New Morality and Mothers by Fred Renich  
#1003 60 min. 
What stand do we take on the "New Morality" issue and what about "permissiveness"? We need to be concerned and learn what God's word has to say about this.

Children

From Birth to Obedience by Malettor Cross  
#1005 60 min. 
Teaching children to obey...when and why. Mrs. Cross has experienced both success and failure! What has God outlined for us to DO and BE for our children?

Authority, Commitment, Obedience by Malettor Cross  
#1067 60 min. 
Viewing God as our Father allows us the privilege of being His children. Learn the responsibilities that come with God's authority on our side, and the freedom to obey HIM first.

Can Character be Taught to Children? by Jill Renich  
#1011 60 min. 
How to teach strength of character, integrity, and self-control while supporting your child so he can with stand peer pressure. Godly character needs developing.

How to Tell Your Children About Sex by Jill Renich  
#1048 90 min. 
Your children need to hear about this important subject from YOU. Learn a simple approach with practical HOW-TO's!!!

"Teens" - A Talk for Today's Parents by Al Kuhnle  
#1104 60 min. 
What's happening with your teens. A Christian leader shares.

Autonomy and Your Importance in The Family by Marilyn Van Wingerden  
#3002-3005 4 tapes 4 hours 
Developmental Stages Children Grow Through. From birth to twelve: Cognitive stages of ability to think logically, rationally, abstractly, with imagination and creativity. Emotional, psychological, social stages and the "tasks" all children need to perform for high functioning, and positive growth. Stages of identity formation essential to gender functioning and sense of who a child fells him or herself to be. ($19.99/set)

Sexual Abuse of Children

Incest, Intra-Family Sexual Activity by Marilyn Van Wingerden  
#3511-3514 4 tapes 4 hours 
Understanding healthy family systems vs. the unhealthy incest family system ' what wives/mothers' real experiences are; the pervasive damage to victim child; a look at perpetrators; the stake driven between mother and victim and her other children. ($19.99/set)

Emotional Needs

Freedom in a Prison of Circumstances by Malettor Cross  
#1024 60 min. 
Live with difficulties without being crushed by them. You can be free in the midst of your circumstances.

How to Grow Through Problems by William Greenman  
#1061-1063 3 tapes 3 hours 
Dr. Greenman gives us a view of trust vs. distrust, autonomy vs. shame and doubt, incentive vs. blame. With purpose and hope, you can grow through fear of falling. He also discusses how to solve problems, and instructs in parenting. ($19.99/set)